Frequently Asked Questions

What is a SPONSOR?
If you can help someone with their bills, or give other kind of support, then you are a Sponsor. You do not have to be a millionaire to be generous.

What is a SPONSEE?
If you are looking to get help with your bills or other kind of support, then you are a Sponsee.

What rules are there for Photos I upload?
Your main profile photo must be of you and ONLY of you. Photos may not contain nudity, may not depict minors, celebrities, random objects, graphics, text, or cartoons, and may not contain personal contact information. Photos must reasonably depict a true image of you. Photos you upload are subject to approval and may be rejected, reassigned, or deleted if we feel any of these rules are broken.

What's the difference between a Sugar Daddy and a Sponsor?
Sugar Daddies are typically wealthy older men looking for a certain kind of arrangement. A sugar daddy is often expected to spend large amounts of money on a regular basis on his sugar baby. In reality, most traditional Sugar Daddy-type sites are full of average guys pretending to be rich. This usually leads nowhere and is frustrating to both the girls and the guys.
But on you don't have to pretend to be rich. A SPONSOR can be almost anyone: You don't have to be a rich old man to be a Sponsor. You do need to be able and willing to give some kind of support. This can be monetary, emotional, or both. It's between you and your Sponsee how far you wish to take this.

All females automatically get the GOLD membership for FREE. Girls can send, read and reply to messages from any member, create blogs, promote their profiles, initiate chats, add their personal Amazon Wishlist links and accept donations, and much much more - FREE.
Gentlemen, you guys need to purchase a GOLD membership to talk to the ladies. Most of you will be Sponsors so this shouldn't be a problem. If you can't afford our low membership fee, then you need to rethink the whole Sponsor thing.

What is not allowed on prohibits its members from offering money in exchange for sex. can't control communications between members off site, but any communications on the site related to the exchange of sex for money will result in cancellation of membership and banning from the site. To make this clear: Any type of solicitation for prostitution is strictly prohibited. No nude photos are allowed. All members must be at least 18 years or older. Any photos you upload must not depict any minors. Any kind of harassment or "cyber stalking" is prohibited. Commercial solicitations are prohibited. By using Sponsor For you agree to be bound by our terms of use and our privacy policy.

Approval Process
After you fill out your profile and click to join for free, you MUST verify your email address. Please check your Spam folder if you don't see our verification email in your Inbox. After you verified your email address your profile will be reviewed by SFM Administrators. All profiles must follow the guidelines set forth in the terms of use, including but not limited to:
- a photo of yourself. No nudity, minors, text, celebrities, or cartoons are allowed.
- your bio must contain information about you, what you are looking for, and what you have to offer. "asdfgh" is NOT an acceptable bio text, neither is "I just want sex!!!". Be specific.
- Administration reserves the right to reject any application for any reason in order to maintain a high standard for all members. Please see terms if you have any questions, or contact Admin directly through the contact form, a link to which can be found on the bottom of every page.

Can I upload a picture of me with my face blurred?
Yes. But remember that clear face pictures usually get a much higher response rate.

Amazon Wishlist and Pay Pal Donations
SFM makes it easy for sponsees to get spoiled fast - you can put up your Amazon Wishlist link (currently U.S. only) and even receive donations from generous sponsors through Pay Pal right through Sponsor For Me. (Subject to change at any time). You add your Amazon Wishlist link and Pay Pal email by clicking "My Profile" > "Edit Profile". Please see full terms of use and privacy policy for more information.

What is the Gold Membership?
Gold Membership is the full, unlimited membership that allows members to send, receive, and reply to all messages of other members, see unlimited search results and profiles, post blogs and promote their own profiles, and get access to one-on-one assistance from our friendly moderators. Gold Members are displayed first in search results, among many other perks.
Females get this membership automatically immediately after joining, at no cost. Men get a limited preview membership aka. "Standard Membership" at first. In order to enjoy the full privileges, men need to upgrade. Upgrading is fast, confidential, and secure.

What else should I know about Sponsor For Me? is often abbreviated SFM by members and admins. SFM is much more flexible than most other sugar daddy-type dating sites. Some sponsees will be happy to come to a physical, face-to-face arrangement, some will not. Some sponsors are rich, some are of average means. At Sponsor For Me we realize that one does not have to be a millionaire in order to have a rewarding arrangement with a sponsee, and sponsees do not have to be experienced "sugar babies" in order to be successful. Because of the wide range of possible arrangements, always be sure to clearly communicate what you are willing to offer or what you are looking for. Honesty is the cornerstone to any successful arrangement.